The list of behaviors that are considered cheating, infidelity, adultery or emotional affairs range from the obvious to the subtle:

1. Engaging in any sexual contact with non-partner (including: hugging, kissing, caressing, oral sex, and phone sex).
2. Flirting or engaging in sexual innuendo either in person or via text, online chatting or talking on the phone.
3. Sharing personal information with non-partner, she has hopes and dreams for the future. Even a discussion about values could led to an emotional connection.
4. Daydreaming or fantasizing about a non-partner.
5. Anticipating seeing, talking, texting, or emailing a person who is not your partner.
6. Looking at pornography or engaging in cyber-sex.